Game dating guys play
Oh, if I could only count the number of times I’ve heard clients recount stories about the annoying games men and women play in dating.Grab your cup of coffee or glass of wine, ladies and gentlemen, because we’re about to get into it!When you have a fulfilling life of your own that exists completely separate from him, you will automatically be seen as having great value.When your happiness is rooted in all sorts of things, not just him, you will never have to watch what you say or do for fear of coming off as needy because you will never be needy.In fact, the tough love coaching I give my clients is aimed at protecting women from falling victim to such games. I’m sure female readers could cite hundreds of examples.But from my practice, here are four of the most frequent games I see men playing: 1) The “play to lay” game.
If only it was solely used for those reasons, then the world would be a much better place.
In this article, I’m focusing on the way men and women lie to their dates and end up leading them on when they’re not actually interested.
What’s one of the most frequent lies men and women use?
While guys enjoy the pursuit, they hate it when you act in a way that is deliberately trying to get them to chase you. And to be clear, that is not what I’m talking about here.
I am not saying get him to pursue you by acting unavailable, I’m saying actually be unavailable.
Cue the sirens, folks, because the first game we’ll discuss is a true contagion in the dating world. Sugar-Coated Lying Early in dating, men and women lie constantly.